22 April 2024

by Dr. Julia

Before you love someone else, you should first love yourself - equally, to love yourself, you must first learn it, illuminating all the dark corners of your personal history. That's how it works... Private Success always precedes Public Success. Therefore, a prerequisite for a successful relationship, for a harmonious interdependence, is to have established your personal independence.

Independence is an achievement - interdependence is a choice only independent people can make. The most important ingredient in a relationship is not what we say or what we do, but what we are, our character.

We all know at least one broken relationship story with people who tried to "cut corners"and invest in a relationship without having either the maturity or the strength of character to maintain it. In relationships, though, you can't be a parachuter - you will have to walk the road of life, sometimes, alone.

A reflection on all that you hide within and a reconnection with all that matters to you will emancipate you, making room for a future interdependence. And interdependence will be the one that will open up an entire world before your eyes, with a rich and meaningful association, open communication, and absolute synergy with your significant other.